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Keveseunie

@MarioLover92
Thanks for the kind words.

@Tyranexx
Hi there, no worries on us not interacting much. There are so many conversations going on at the same time here on the NL forums it's impossible to respond on every topic, let alone every member. We all pick and choose which conversations to take part in.

From the reactions I've gotten so far, it's apparent that many of us have at least some experience with mental health issues. It warms my heart that this topic can be freely discussed here in a respectful manner. When I began my therapy sessions 7 years ago, I was barely alive... figuratively speaking. I was hospitalized in a psychiatric institution full-time (day and night, including weekends) for a year and a further 2 years of daily therapy in which I could sleep at home and had the weekends off. All because of clinical depression and anxiety.

We're now 4 years past those 3 years of intense therapies and I still need counselling every 2-3 weeks in order to maintain my mental wellbeing. And even then I go through patches when everything goes downhill for a time. It's a rough life, to say the least, but I keep working on myself, which is the most important thing I can do.

Anyway, that's enough drama for one post.
Happy to hear you enjoyed your time with Xenoblade 3. It surpassed the first Xenoblade as my all-time favourite game. Can't get enough of it. In fact, I'm currently on my third 100% playthrough. And no, I'm not going to seek counselling for this particular problem.😅

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Grumblevolcano

@StarPoint @Kermit1 I think it comes down to while there's a lot of upcoming Switch releases, there's not much Nintendo news in general. When there's not much Nintendo news, the gaps tend to be filled with more random stuff or Switch Pro rumours.

Meanwhile this time last year (October 4th 2021) the general Direct was more recent and had more shadow drops, Nintendo were doing weekly Metroid Dread "reports" up to the game's release in a few days, Animal Crossing New Horizons was getting a Direct very soon, the final Smash DLC fighter was being revealed tomorrow, NSO Expansion Pack was releasing later that month, etc. There were lots of upcoming games/updates/DLC but at the same time there was a lot of news.

Honestly I'm rather surprised there hasn't been a Bayonetta 3 Direct announced yet.

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Keveseunie

Oh my goodness!
I just made an incredible purchase: the Samsung Neo QLED QN95B 55" TV.

I've been looking to buy a new TV for over a year now but I kept postponing it because I never found that one sweet deal I couldn't pass up... until now. The QN95 is Samsung's flagship 4K TV and sells on average for €2200 in my country. I found it today for €1430.

Can't wait for it to arrive tomorrow.

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jedgamesguy

@Keveseunie Nice one! I've had a Samsung 55" for awhile now, and it really makes the difference, especially for Switch. The Sport mode has a very interesting "interpolation" filter that makes video run very smoothly, so for games like Breath of the Wild it basically converts it to 60fps. What a dream.

HDR is also very useful on PlayStation for me, but when saving recordings they look awful when I play them back on a computer. So be wary

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Fizza

@Keveseunie I may not be as technologically versed as others but I like to visit my local Curry's from time to time and I must say: that's a really good TV! Do let us know how games/movies look on it at some point!

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Keveseunie

@TheJGG
I never record gameplay footage, so I'm not worried about that. Sorry to hear you have problems with it though.

@Fizza
Will do!

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Kermit1

I just realized I've watched 932 episodes of 80s commercials.

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Tyranexx

@Keveseunie Glad we're on the same page in regards to forum interaction. I know I don't need to justify myself, but it's a side effect of me trying to tell people I'm not willingly ignoring them for whatever reason. XD Touches on something I'm working on: trying not to be responsible for the emotions of others.

I'm glad that discussions regarding mental health in general are more acceptable these days compared to previous decades. Though there is unfortunately still plenty of stigma. The forums here are generally pretty chill in my experience. At least compared to the comment sections on the main site. You've definitely come a long way in your mental health journey, something I think deserves to be celebrated. Life can be quite the roller coaster. In the words of Glennon Doyle Melton, it's brutiful. You're correct: The most important thing we can do is continue working on ourselves!

I loved my time with XC3. I haven't really delved into the post-game yet - might leave that until more of the DLC releases - but I do plan on going back to it! I may even do a NG+ playthrough too. I know there's a respective thread, but I was staying out of it for the longest time to avoid any potential plot spoilers.

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Keveseunie

@Rambler
Thanks, and no worries on being late.

@Tyranexx
I totally get why you'd avoid the XC3 thread. People there did their best not to put spoilers on it, or use the spoiler tag if necessary. Aside from one jerk who simply didn't care and got numerous posts removed. They didn't affect me personally because I was way ahead of him, but I'm sure others weren't.

@Kermit1
You haven't, but I'm not sure there's a point to it because I don't play multiplayer games.

@Sunsy
And thanks to you as well. I'm sure we'll be talking about animated movies again in the near future.

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blindsquirrel

This may not be the right place to post this, but it is really the only place I can ask.

How do you tell somebody they need to lose weight, without sounding like a massive jerk?

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Keveseunie

@blindsquarel
That's a sensitive subject. I think most people who are overweight realise full well they should be losing weight, but they often lack the motivation to do so.

I myself am in that position unfortunately and no matter how many times someone tells me I should do something about it, including my family doctor, I rarely find the strength to take action. Only in those periods when I feel very good mentally do I start with a diet and extra exercise.

I can't speak for everyone of course, but I know a couple of others who're overweight and we all lack the basic motivation. It's tough changing that and it usually comes from the inside, the person themself. It's like trying to quit smoking. It's a goal you need to set for yourself, and you have to believe in it, otherwise it's doomed for failure anyway.

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Solaine

@blindsquarel
As @Keveseunie already said: You approach it sensitively with an open mindest and without judging the person in a negative way. They probably already know very well about their weight and it really depends on how good you know that person and how apparent the weight issue really is.

If you are on good terms already, i am sure it is a great idea to be open about it and approach the subject in a constructive way.
On the other hand, if you do not really know each other you may ask yourself why you even want to tell such a fact to a person, probably not adding any substantial news to anyone.

But generally being honest and sincere about it works best in cases like these from personal experience, it really depends on the whole situation though and i have never really felt the need to tell that to anyone so please take my advice with a grain of salt

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Takoda

Just decided to roll through here and all the positivity around mental issues really was quite heartwarming. That people feel safe enough to be open and talk about these honestly deeply personal things and to then get the support their efforts deserve. Might also be because I study psychology but it’s always equally fascinating, heartwarming and slightly confronting since I’m so much worse at being open about any of that, haha.

Always feels like I put my nose where it doesn’t belong when I ‘read along’ like that sometimes but still felt like I wanted to say it. Props to everyone for fighting the good fight and slowly getting where they’d like to be in life. It ain’t easy, but you can definitely be proud of even the smaller bits of progress.

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Keveseunie

Oh man... just got a call the delivery of my new TV is being delayed until tomorrow.
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Anti-Matter

@Keveseunie
While waiting for your TV got delivered, you can use a card box and some imagination (Spongebob's rainbow) 🌈 🤭

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blindsquirrel

@Keveseunie @Rambler @Solaine
I will say that this person is a family member. The reason it is hard to ask about is because I am in the process of losing weight so it is hard to do it without sounding hypocritical. I know they want to lose weight, but they seem to have a roadblock in starting the process. Maybe I will invite them to work out with me. That is all I can think of.

Thanks for the help though, I really appreciate it.

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