Topic: Disappointment of the Day

Loss.
It's scary how you suddenly can lose something you love, and never see it again.
It's sad how you can love something, but you'll never be able to reach it.

Although what happened to me today wasn't serious, it frightens me of what could happen to those I hold dear...

I'm in charge of doing the last touches in group's work, and there's even undone stuff in it...........
so, more work for me...
when I finally thought I was free :/

So instead of my dad getting me Professor Layton and Azran Legacy for 3DS, he instead got me that crossover game Professor Layton VS phoneix wright atteroney.

DAMM IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WHY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WHY CAN'T HE JUST LISTEN TO WHAT I ASKED HIM FOR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I wasn't even interested to get this game so why did he DO THAT INSTEAD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Worst part is that I can't tell him to return it because he gets it from Dubai! So now its like if I yell, he won't get me anymore games!!!!!!!!!!!!! DAMMMM IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! HOW ELSE AM I SUPPOSE TO GET AZRAN LEGACY OR KID ICARUS UPRISING?!?!?!?!?!? XD XD XD XD

@Artwark In my opinion they're both great games. The story in Professor Layton VS Phoenix Wright is even better than Azran legacies in my opinion. I understand your disappointment, you want to know the ending of the Professor Layton serie, however PL vs PW was surprisingly good!

My day starts at 10 am, when I have to be at work

Today is kinda special....

I have around 90 special cases of customer who cannot locate their consoles around the world, some people is from Argetina, Mexico, Colombia, Peru, US, even Spain...
Today I woke up with a 39 fever, and feeling like sh*t
Tomorrow is the last day I have to deliver my work files and close all those 90 cases, and I feel really bad
Tomorrow is the release of hyrule warriors and I am afraid I won't be able to pick it up, since I have no idea if i'll be able to stand up tomorrow
I live alone, and my relation with my family well,.... there is none
And right now there is a new guy, next to me, asking me questions nonstop the whole day, and it is getting to my nerves...

I hate feeling like this, since it's nobody's fault, but I need a break, the worst part of all? I get to sleep only 4 hours per night, and today I was able to sleep only 2, because of the fever...

Its been a while since my girlfriend broke up with me and still can't get a hold of her. I am still hurting from this. It was so random and I didn't expect it. I just wish I could at least get closure by hearing what I did wrong from her. I never did anything to hurt her I never lied or anything. I have just been depressed lately and can't seem to cheer up. I really loved her. She was talking about us moving in together and how she wanted a future with me. Why the sudden change why would she just forget me like this and act like I never existed. I am still in love with her. Well thanks for anyone who reads this. My friends haven't even been here and my family isn't either as they are all broke apart pretty much and none of them really talk to each other for some reason. I'm really sad/stressed and have no one to talk to and the one person I could talk to is out of my life....

You're sounding desperate, my friend. You need to act like you've completely moved on from her. Don't tell her you have someone new, but be very vague and hint towards it. After about a week it'll drive her crazy that you're not pursuing her anymore because girls love to be pursued no matter how much they act like it's bothering them. Trust me. Good luck, bud.

No.

Do NOT listen to @LetsGoRetro

You need to stay strong and find out other ways what the reason is. Don't sit depressed doing nothing and hoping that she'll come back to you. Think smart and logically. What can you do to find out the required information?

NO FREAKING WAY

the girl I liked only started paying attention to me when I stopped liking her and that made me even less interested in her....
I'm serious.

A truck caught on fire on the opposite side of the road from me. All the lanes were blocked and traffic is still backed up around 20-30 miles. This will more than likely affect how I get home after work. I'm very disappointed in that truck for catching fire.

It is better to find the truth and see the outcome than to wonder and put your life at a pause not knowing the truth. Straight up ask her.. why?

If she dumped you for doing nothing than shame on her. There are many fish in the sea, find one that looks like nigel!

Oh my god my 3ds doesn't work anymore.And i mean the buttons i keep pressing them and pressing and no response.Why did it have to happen now? When smash is so close to releasing,why me oh god? So i have to buy a new one, and that might take a while and the worst thing i'm going to have smash in my home and i'm not going to be able too play it.

Those are the ones you should not pursue.
As long as you're not being desperate and overly attached and she's showing interest then you're good to go!

Just like Tomatopod said, there are many fish in the sea, but a lot are also poisoned so be careful.

I can't stop procrastinating. My mind just wonders off when ever i am trying to get something done like homework or when i am at school and i can't find a way to stop it

@Kewlan

Ummmm, excuse me? I would be willing to bet I do a lot better with women than you, bud, and what I just said is a very BASIC technique!

@GuSolarFlare

You DO realize you just PROVED my point, do you not? "The girl I liked only started liking me when I stopped paying attention to her" .. Uhhh, that's exactly what I told him to do!

Let me explain something to you, kids.

When you're walking down the street and you see 2 restaurants across from each other. One of them has 8 people in line and the other one has nobody. Just a dusty old tumbleweed blowing by.

Now, which one of those do you assume has better food? Obviously, the one that has everyone waiting to eat at it. "Why are those people so willing to wait to eat there when they could go across the street and eat at that other place?" you wonder. Because, obviously, that place is good enough to wait for, and the other place isn't even good enough to go to. This applies to EVERYTHING in life. Did you ever notice the same guys seem to get tons of girls? Do you know why? Because other girls see girls liking that guy and say "He must have something great to make all these girls wild about him. Maybe he treats them well. Maybe he's great in bed. There's got to be SOMETHING. I'm going to find out what it is!"

Now, the other guy is calling 10 times a day "WHAT DID I DO WRONG?? PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE LIKE ME!" "Well, obviously, THIS guy has nothing great going on. He sure doesn't have women chasing him down because he wouldn't be spending all his time calling me and begging for me back" She thinks. TRUST ME, this is how women think!

So IGNORE kewlan when he says "That's not the kind of girl you want" if she only wants you when you stop pursuing her. That's human nature, man.

What I'm telling you to do works for 2 reasons.

1- She will wonder what changed? She was being pursued and now she's not. She will wonder "Why doesn't he chase me anymore? Am I not as attractive anymore? Or maybe he has a new girl. I wonder if she's better than me!" This intrigues her and catches her interest MUCH more than begging her does.

2- Just like the restaurant, if you act like you now have other things going on and interest from other places, she will think that you've made the changes in your life that she found unattractive about you. She will assume you MUST have something to offer her now, because you have something to offer the other girls interested in you. And believe me, she WILL want to beat those other girls, and get you back.

NOW.

What exactly does all this mean. Should you be mean to her? No. Should you be rude to her? No. Should you act like you couldn't give 2 craps? Not at all! This is a girl you want to be with, and plus you should never be anything other than good to ANYBODY. What you do is purposely bump into her somewhere and act like it's not a big deal that she's there. Don't ignore her, that's obvious. Just casually say hi and then talk to a friend you're with about something small. Stay in the same place she is but act like your attention isn't really on her. If you're in a store, look over the merchandise, etc.

She'll act like it doesn't really bother her but it does. After a few minutes, casually say bye and leave. She'll say to herself "Oh, he's playing games, but he's going to call me 50 times later". About 3 days later, when you haven't called, THIS is when the hooks are starting to get deep in her. What's going on? Do you have another girlfriend? She will now call you.

This is very important now. Act like you're very busy. Casually elude to the fact that you're either washing your car or (if you're not old enough), your room, or even that you have another friend on the other line. Now, if she asks if there's another girl, say no. If you say yes, you wish a barrage of questions and if she finds out if you're lying, your cover is blown. You say no. The reason you say no is, since you're not acting that into her, she's not going to believe you anyways. She's going to think you're just letting her down easy. So it accomplishes the same thing, but you don't make yourself obvious when she finds out you lied.

Talk to her for a few minutes, then say it was great talking to her, but you have to go. She's going to ask to see you either during this conversation or the second time she calls you. It's very important that you turn her down. Very politely, but just say you have a lot of plans and are very busy. If she asks if your plans are with a new girl, you say no. She won't believe you, and that's exactly what you want.

Trust me, this formula works everytime:

1- Act like you're not that into seeing her.
2- Don't call her.
3- Refuse to hang out the first time you get the opportunity.

It's simple. The SECOND time she asks you to hang out, you DO it. This will be your chance to get her back. The KEY to all this is you NEVER act anything but casual, polite and busy. If you are acting angry at her while doing this, it doesn't work. The key to this is to show her you are a guy that has grown up and moved on and have better opportunities than her in your life.

The only way this doesn't work is if this girl would've never had a chance of being into you anyways. If this is the hottest girl in school and you are a 400 pound computer programmer with a horrible reputation, then, well, common sense. But in the case of an ex that you use to date, this will work and you can thank me later. I've had a LOT of success with women! Good luck, buddy!

The person who I was going to move in with as a roommate backed out so now I have to find a new place to live on short notice.

Dudes who brag about how good they with women online are always total goobers in real life.

@PanchoStamos

Except I'm not just running around "bragging", I'm responding to someone who's telling someone to ignore me. Dudes who use the word "goober", are, well... Goobers.

So what you're saying is you're exactly what he said you were? Good to know.

And they were saying to ignore your advice because it sucked. "Girls love being pressured into a relationship" is @$$hole logic, man.

Reading comprehension is your friend. I say "Don't chase her because you look desperate" and you take that as "being pressured into a relationship". What I actually said was that girls like being pursued. If you don't know that, then I don't know what else I can say to you. He is currently pursuing her. He's seeming desperate because he's constantly calling her and she doesn't want to talk to him. If you think telling him to stop doing that and to give her her space and act busy and like he's moving on is bad advice, then there's no point in continuing on speaking with you, anyways. Not that I was, but since you feel the need to jump in. Keep hounding the girls you like. I'm sure the 57th time will get her attention. Keep at it, bro!

Lol, my advice is literally EXACTLY THE OPPOSITE of "pressuring her into a relationship".