Topic: Can someone sum up why this crap is happening to me?...

Im not doing this for girls.
Im doing this for my protection.
i want everyone to look at me and say "...he is buffed....i ain't gonna pick on him"

But what i get is "....LOL.....skinny little wimp"

If i do happen to become buff.....believe me....it will be a huge change in my life.

I know it sounds redundant, but don't change yourself for the sake of acceptance. It seems that you really take to heart whatever they say about you. The best thing to do is to simply ignore them. I know negative comments are hard to cope with, but just try to "turn off", so to say, your hearing. Think of some happy memory or experience to negate that ridicule. Unfortunately, our modern world is built on these horrid situations; one must adapt and create a barrier against that.

i agree with koopatroopa to a degree. if bulking up will make you feel happy about yourself, i dont see anything wrong with it. but if you do, wont people be more afraid of you and yell at you more? earlier you said random people do that, and if you turn into some giant it may make it worse. perhaps a middle ground area is better, people cant make fun of you and they wont be afraid of you. but like koopatroopa said, dont do it for acceptance, if it makes you feel more comfortable in your own skin, thats why you should do it. best of luck in whatever you decide on.

Exercise is great! Just be sure you do your research and do it safely. My boyfriend right now has trouble gaining weight, so if you are naturally skinny, you may have to really do everything right to get the desired results. Exercise is great on so many levels, but hopefully, you'll get the desired result and be more confident instead of losing motivation if you don't see results quickly. Maybe you can invest in a punching bag to take out some anger too, or some martial arts classes and meet some new friends as well as buff up! Good luck!

Here are some awesome word's of wisdom. (One of my faves btw) If this doesn't make you smile, then nothing will.
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"bound, bound, bound and rebound"

Excellent!

@Token Girl - your quite amazing with the advice thing : )

@Magi: Loved the video. Pretty sweet. Great thing to show here how the sheep learned to deal and not to let this thing get him down. Where'd that come from? Be cool to show my niece and possibly my nephew.

@longtimegamer: That's a Pixar short. They played it before... The Incredibles, I believe.

People like to think "if only" but then when the "if only" happens nothing much changes...

Hey, I'm surprised no one mentioned this yet.

Surround yourself with friends.

I always used to be that kid when I was in middle/high school. Of course, I had top-notch grades, and didn't have troubles at home, but...I was always afraid of what others thought of me.

And then one day, I met someone I'd never forget.
He really showed me it was OK to be yourself. He made a fool of himself, was a real class clown, and overall was a public jackass. But that's what he was good at, and he did a darned good job of it.
And so everyone laughed at his antics, and cheered him on, and, well, he kept on doing his thing.

That really got the ball rolling. Soon, we met more kids. A lot of them seemed weird and unpopular, but I assure you they were not surface deep people.

Pretty soon, we hads an ineperable pack of friends. At lunches, we had to pull two tables together just to fit everyone! And no one ever bothered us again. Except when they did, and we dealed with that.

So essentially, what I'm saying is, get out there and meet some friends. Be open to people in your school. They might have changed through the years. Don't look surface deep, like your school bullies and rabble rousers do. Look for people with similarities to yourself. (To me, I was one with the odd-ball types.) Go to social gatherings and activities, and stay close to the people you meet by hanging out, talking online, or just playing Nintendo together.

Friends are the most important thing to have in life, and they will always help you through when the going gets tough.

Yeap, it is a Pixar short. I believe it comes on the "bonus disc" that comes with the Incredibles. The short on the main movie disc is "Jack-Jack Attacks" iirc.

Good work. Don't let depression and bullys ruin your life. School doesn't last forever and life changes all the time. Good things will happen to you. You will get through this.

And god isn't punishing you. Things happen in your life to mould you. We all of start as coal.....god wants to make us in to a diamond.... to make coal into a diamond takes immense pressure and molding... it works the same in life....

Please read....WARNING!!! BAD LANGUAGE And....weird weird stuff.
I will not be getting myself fit.
Why should i work my ass off for these gobshites?
However today in school...it was good yet abit bad.

Heres what happened.
In english class i sat down. this fatass sat down beside me aswell and he RANDOMLY started to slag me off and say stuff like....and please...if your under 13....look elsewhere cuz im serious...he said this stuff to me.
He said "Hey Sean..you get butt-raped don't ya?..you love it dont you?" (i mean wtf is he talking about??)
My reply was "yeah yeah w/e." and he kept going on and saying crap like "Have you lost your virginity yet?" Now i didn't reply to him but to me i would have said this (Why would i lose my virginity at 17?? im not looking for whores. Ill lose my virginity to a girl who loves me.)
Now he started to say crap like this "I'll kick the shit out of you Sean you little Tec" (tec means...umm...im guessing it means a good person who isn't a bully or doesn't vandlise things....hehe im glad he told me that )

Anyway 2 guys were sitting behind me and i turned around to them and said "Doesn't this fat bastard look like Augustus bloop from charlie and the chocolate factory??"
Their reply was "....LMAO!!!!"
they told me it was a brillant joke...and in fairness....this fat guy does indeed look like augustus.

Also i am sorry for the bad language...seriously tho..he said this to me and again i apologise for my own language.
However today was an good day for me. Tommorow atleast...should be ok i guess lol
btw i do not hate fat people but i did the insults for his sake only.

So if someone insults you, you think the best way to rise above it is to insult them back?

Listen to the advice in this thread, Sean. Learn to laugh at yourself and not other people. Find some good friends, enjoy their company and you'll be made. As soon as you're out of school you'll look back on it and see it helped you improve.

Yep. Just hang in there. Much of this school BS goes away in the real world.
Just keep in mind confronting the jackasses isn't always the best idea. I was picked on in high school and went prison rules on the douchebags, but it didn't accomplish that much.

Like others have said, try to surround yourselves with friends.

Monsters Inc. is where I saw it.

@Sean- To tell you the truth, I was bullied a bit last year and in the year before. But I didn't have it as bad as you. This year is going way better. I joined the school american football team, doing better in school, and Im staying out of trouble. The 'laugh at your self' tip definetly works.

Well thinking about suicide is never a good thing. And do not ever let me hear of you slitting your wrist on Youtube. Thats not going to serve any purpose or prove anything. We as a whole just do not want to see you hurt. Your young and if you feel you have done bad things in the past or if someone thinks bad of you or even insults you. Remember you have a long life ahead of you and a lot of things can change over time.

I do not believe God is punishing you. Look at it as a test in life and its one you can pass. Be positive ! Your relationship with your father sounds kind of strained. I hope you two grow closer as you get older. Look at school as a test in life and its one you can pass and remember after your out of there one day when you graduate you are out of there and the sky is the limit.

got that right, it sounds like its straight from a movie like Gilbert Grape
but nonetheless i believe you.

but if i know anything. dont take crap from jerks like them you gotta do something about those @$$es. even if you cant fight back, you can still do something. fight back with words, pranks, authority...anything!

i think he meant "tech" which means someone who loves technology and computers. he was prolly refering to how you play videogames while he eats twinkies by the dozen