Hi, I'm a bit of an aged luddite! Wife just bought me the game instead of a drum kit! However, two problems havearisen: 1) I'm left handed, and can't find a way to use left hand for cymbals/hihats, etc, and 2) I can't get 2nd remote to register to use both controllers-any one have an idiot guide as to what to do?
HELP!

Knobby