Topic: The Chit-Chat Thread

@Anti-Matter "got fired from my working place at school for making a student cried because she thought i have stalked at her but i didn't mean to" … hmm did you really stalked her or she made that up?

I mean you said "but I didn't mean to" which means you did but with good intentions? Sometimes it is really hard to understand that you really mean.

Also I doubt that they will fire you without any proof right? Otherwise you should sue their ass!

That student behave very strange and inappropriate to me like she just avoided me when i saw her without rational explanation, like i was a dangerous people that should be avoided. I was wondering what was my fault until she avoided me when i face with her. I didn't even know about her but she already behave very inappropriate toward me. It was the day of Report day at my old working place. I saw her still waiting for her parent took over the report. She still getting along with other teachers but not with me. She suddenly avoided me when she saw me and keep avoiding me when i tried to know what's wrong and suddenly she just run away with cry and told to her parent at the same day. Her parent complained about that to the Management and i thought i just only got warning. But, on the first day i went back to work on 5th January 2015 after long holiday on December 2014, my principal school called me and the management said i couldn't work anymore due to that complaint. I was shocked and it was the 3rd time i got abused by females in 3 years in a row (2012 when my female student's parent suddenly asked for stop giving private teaching as the old private teacher already returned after long break due pregnancy without rational reqsons, 2013 i got same treatment again for my private teaching student but in this case after i tried to called her for her private lesson time at her home, she still sleepy and when i tried to called her in her room politely, suddenly she just run away to her parent's bedroom and didn't want to get private lesson. Her Mom dismissed me due to that condition, but on the next day suddenly her Mom told me that she didn't want to have private lesson due to irrational reasons, January 2015 i got fired because of female student again)
And i swore to myself if i got female student again for next private lesson and if she abused me again with same treatment, i didn't hesitate to attack her if necessary. Just enough with b***hy female students ! 😡

Fortunately, on July 2015 i got good female student (grade 7) for my private lesson and i have lectured her until graduated from grade 9 and i have told to her parents if i can teach until Junior High School level due to difficulty level on Physics and Chemistry on grade 10 & above.

@Anti-Matter Wait wait wait … am I reading that correctly?
1. What do you mean by inappropriate? Are you staring at the kid all day? Maybe it is afraid of you. The story of how you hit the TV because of loud females is scary dude! And why confront it like the little kid is bullying you?

2. "2012 when my female student's parent suddenly asked for stop giving private teaching as the old private teacher already returned after long break due pregnancy without rational reqsons" - You were just a substitute I guess so it is perfectly normal for the parents to ask for the older teacher. And she was on parent leave this is a reason enough.

3. "2013 i got same treatment again for my private teaching student but in this case after i tried to called her for her private lesson time at her home, she still sleepy and when i tried to called her in her room politely, suddenly she just run away to her parent's bedroom and didn't want to get private lesson. "
You went in HER room and WOKE her up? I hope this is NOT what really happened! You may have traumatized that kid. Think before you act!

4. "And i swore to myself if i got female student again for next private lesson and if she abused me again with same treatment, i didn't hesitate to attack her if necessary. Just enough with b***hy female students ! 😡"
This hatred is not normal and you should seek help. There is no correlation in the gender of the students! And you are shocked why parents are afraid of you?!

I seriously try to analyse this information but it sounds that it is not in your favour.
I mean every time other people have problem with you. Maybe you have to look objectively and ask yourself what you are doing?

It sounds like your family is taking care of you. They are not abusive like some families to scar you for like or anything like that. Come to think of it you are lucky.

I know we have our differences on this forums but I think you should seek help.

@Anti-Matter yeah I have to say, it’s probably a good thing you stay away from mature rated games!

@klingki I jump between normal and easy. I’ve bumped up me credit, hp, and energy points and that seems to have helped

I am fully aware of their laws and was going to suggest him to try long-distance relationship as a way to bypass it. But since he recently made it clear that he doesn't want to be in one due to personal issues, it would just fall on deaf ears.

@Anti-Matter I sort of get were you are coming from. I just see mature rated video games as escapism as well. Doom and Resident Evil are prime examples of that. If you don’t see that material as satisfying, then that’s all fine and good, but I don’t see much of a difference between taking down a room of zombies and Mario jumping on a bunch of goobas heads. If you are well-adjusted then I can’t see much harm in the former. Does it actually have a different effect psychologically? Perhaps it does. But from my point of view they just present players with two different types of “toy boxes” (both childlike in that way) and ask the player to complete objectives.

Beyond that, I think you’ve conflated the idea of maturity with things that are not actually mature. It’s not a rating on a box, but the deeper sense of reflecting on ones past and future in a way that you wouldn’t do as a child. You also don’t like the same things you liked when you were more naive or “immature”. I’d bet that. So I’d argue we are all mature to a degree and that’s something that’s just an inevitability. It’s not something to be scared of or run away from.

Cheers man and Happy 2020. That’s soon in Indonesia now.

Hello from 2020 people of the past! Happy New Year!

@Heavyarms55 - Happy New Year! Oh man, what is it liiiiike in the new decade?!? Do we all finally learn how to do hadoukens?

Happy New year's guys and gals. Hope everyone stays safe and has fun. Enjoy time with friends and family, and make some memories. Make the drinks flow, and friendships grow!

@Heavyarms55 am I finally able to break the world record speed run for SMB1 in 2020?

@NintendoByNature - Happy New Year, leave my SMB speed run record alone.

@bimmy-lee fine...fine....but what if its already too late and it's set in stone? Only heavyarms knows the true answer.

@Heavyarms55
Wait...!
Did you celebrate New Year 2020 on Japan ?
I still have 50 minutes to go.

@Heavyarms55 Happy new year to you!
I still have to wait 5 and a half hours