More advice (I had to put my daughter to bed, and she was making typing impossible): do some minor Facebook stalking. By that I mean see if she's Liked/commented about any movies, then use what you've got to figure out a movie that's out in theaters that she might like. Then suggest you guys see said movie. If she says that she's seen it DO NOT make another suggestion. She's either trying to let you down easy, or you may seem over-eager if you throw another one out. What you do is say "well, if you can think of one you want to see, you can let me know." That's a good response for several reasons. For one, if she's letting you off easy it lets her know you can take a hint. If she really does want to see a different movie with you, she'll be happy that she gets to pick, at the very least. If she wants to watch some lame chick flick with Kate Hudson and whoever she's got a picture of on her binder, you're good. She's not expecting you to like it; she's probably trying to set a mood. Hopefully You can keep from disillusioning her by acting like you're having a good time, even though the movie's plot is tired and recycled from a thousand movies before it, most likely featuring the same actors as the ones you're watching. Just act like Stallone is hiding in the bushes behind the actors and he's about to jump out and do something awesome like gutting them with a machete like he did in Rambo 4. If you haven't seen Rambo 4, watch it. Not that it's related to the date specifically, but Rambo is a manly series (except #3), and watching them makes you manlier. And chicks dig manly men. And when it's over and she asks you if you liked it you can be honest: say "no, but I liked spending time with you." Chances are that you did, so let her know it Then watch Demolition Man (she doesn't need to be there) because it's another awesome Stallone movie. And Snipes gives an excellent performance. Pulp Fiction is another good movie, but you're 14 and I'm guessing you don't have a lot of access to R-rated movies. Don't watch this movie with your girlfriend (and she will be your girlfriend if you're all pumped up on awesome juice from watching Rambo when you talk to her). Pulp Fiction is pretty bloody from time to time, and you see Ving Rhames' butt. If that stuff does do it for your girlfriend, she probably shouldn't be your girlfriend anymore, 'cause she'll probably end up hacking you up and throwing you in her freezer or something. Unless that does it for you, in which case, proceed. Anyways, enough of my awesome advice for now. You'll probably have your hands full brushing up on action movies for a while
EDIT: Crap, after reading Token's response, I remembered that I forgot to mention that you should either open with a joke or throw one out as you're easing into telling her that you like her. One that's always worked for me was something stupid like "Hey, I can run REALLY fast," (IT'S IN THE DELIVERY, to anyone that says it's too stupid), or "Hey, I'm a Navy Seal. I'm the guy that shot Bin Laden, but don't tell anybody because it's a state secret." I HAVE BEEN MAKING THAT JOKE FOR 10 YEARS, SO DON'T BE ALL "how could that always have worked for you?" It did. Prove me wrong. Just make sure she doesn't think you're trying to be serious. Lots of 14 year old guys are compulsive liars, so don't land in that category
Then just tell her you've been admiring her HootHoots from afar. Her reaction will tell you which way to proceed from there.
hahahahahaha seriously, that's probably not a good idea... but lol :3
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Comedy mate and also some harmless flirting. If you sit next to her in your class try and catch her eye every now and then. Quiet way of letting her know your interested without you having to tell her.
Then just tell her you've been admiring her HootHoots from afar. Her reaction will tell you which way to proceed from there.
Or, you can tell her how to make your Wigglytuff. Works everytime
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Please guys lets tell him serious stuff, I feel for him and I want him to succeed so lets help him the best way we can.
You should make your move before someone beats you to it and then you regret it. That really hurts when that happens and you feel horrible after everything has happened and you feel regret like I why did I not tell her I am so stupid or something like that and then you go and do harm to yourself.
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I can give you some advice, I am a girl after all... Ok i' m not. But I like to dress-up as one. Anyways, try to slowly become friends and eventually tell her how you feel. If that doesn't work then set fire to everyones houses in a fit of rage.
He doesn't necessarily do harm to himself if he doesn't get a girl he wants I'd say the best way to go is to wear a skin tight green suit. Also, pretending like you're a fairy doesn't hurt. And if you're chubby and know a magical dance then no woman in the world is above you!
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yeah... uh... you'll want to seek help if that's a normal thing for you whenever you're disappointed or rejected. people don't generally resort to inflicting self-harm if a prospective date turns 'em down :/
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Err...if that doesn't work out, as most people are saying the best idea is probably just to let her know how you feel. Girls appreciate directness, in my experience. And even if she turns you down, at least you'll never wonder what would have happened if you would have asked her--because that's even worse.
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Then just tell her you've been admiring her HootHoots from afar. Her reaction will tell you which way to proceed from there.
Or, you can tell her how to make your Wigglytuff. Works everytime
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But yeah... uhm... talking to her helps a bunch. Just talking to her and try to be funny, but don't try too hard, otherwise you just look like an idiot, best thing to do is make wisecracks about something that just happened, works for me.
Girls love to know how you feel, but don't go straight in for the kill, ask her if she wants to hang out (cinema or something), from there on it should just snowball, if she wants to talk to you, talk to her and don't forget to LISTEN, walking her to/from school helps move it a long too. But if you do straight up ask her, don't do it in public, when she says no (which is quite common if you do it in public because your adding pressure on to her) you'll become a laughing stock, I've done it before.
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