Topic: Have you noticed this? When a girl says she just wants to be friends

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N64_Gamer

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1. Posted:

After she says that, the next couple of days you start talking less and less and then even the friendship is gone.
Have you noticed this as well?

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This hasn't happened to me personally but a few of buddies have suffered through this. Remember that its also up to you to keep a friendship alive, especially if you take it to awkward extremes, like asking her out. That's not to say you shouldn't aska girl that's your friend out; on the contrary, its good to start as friends. My current girlfriend and I had known each other for about 6 years as friends before I asked her out.

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N64_Gamer

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Objection_Blaster wrote:

This hasn't happened to me personally but a few of buddies have suffered through this. Remember that its also up to you to keep a friendship alive, especially if you take it to awkward extremes, like asking her out. That's not to say you shouldn't aska girl that's your friend out; on the contrary, its good to start as friends. My current girlfriend and I had known each other for about 6 years as friends before I asked her out.

But what if you feel demotivated to continue talking to her?

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I notice that they only ask me this when they recently took my Lvl. 100 Pikachu. In which I never see them again. Poor Pikachu :(

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@N64 Gamer: if you feel demotivated to talk to her after she's shot you down, you gotta ask yourself: Were you really just trying to get to know her so that you could maybe date her, or were you really interested in her as a true friend? :(

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theblackdragon wrote:

@N64 Gamer: if you feel demotivated to talk to her after she's shot you down, you gotta ask yourself: Were you really just trying to get to know her so that you could maybe date her, or were you really interested in her as a true friend? :(

I was interested in dating her. It feels frustrating just having to settle with being friends. :(

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If your desire is for her desires to be fulfilled, then you should welcome being her friend. But it doesn't sound like either of you are too comfortable with the awkwardness between you now, which is common, sure.

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@N64 Gamer: unfortunately, that's what you'll have to settle for, it seems. if you value being her friend still, that's one thing, but if you were only in it just to get with her, it's best to just let the friendship die IMO. i know i wouldn't want someone hanging around me that only wanted to get in my pants and didn't care about being my friend otherwise. :/

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Cheezy

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N64+Gamer wrote:

After she says that, the next couple of days you start talking less and less and then even the friendship is gone.
Have you noticed this as well?

Yes actually, then one day she texted me and said she didn't want me to even TRY talking to her anymore. It's an awful feeling :(

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N64+Gamer wrote:

After she says that, the next couple of days you start talking less and less and then even the friendship is gone.
Have you noticed this as well?

That's just how it goes.