2,041RetrowireMon 9th Sep 2013 Retro_on_theGo wrote: Retrowire wrote: Retro_on_theGo wrote: @Retrowire I understand. I also hope he gets what he deserves. I hate it when people do something like this and I can never understand why. u_u I wouldn't dare toy with a girl's feelings like that. If there's another you just have to break it to her, be a man. My current girlfriend was cheated on by her ex before me. She's different ever since that jerk did what he did and I won't stand for anyone hurting someone like that. Man or woman. You know, my wife and I were talking about that. Why do people do this? And the conclusion we reached was, Greed. To have enough and only want more, it's just greed. When people apply that greed to relationships, they are essentially treating people like objects. Well, people are more than objects and when there's someone that lives their life this way, it can only be certain that they are a very self centered person. And my condolences for the jackhole that scarred the one that you love. It is a scar, but the best you can do is protect the one you're with from more harm. Healing that scar, is up to her. Greed sounds about right. Or they're just perverts that never learned how to be loyal lol. And thanks on that last part man. I have no idea when she'll heal from it, if she ever does. Its made things pretty tough and honestly, I'm starting to think I'm waiting my time. I don't want to give up on her though so I'm just seeing where this will all end up. Sorry @Mickey, I don't want to go off topic but I feel wrong not responding to this. I wish there were a Private Messaging system in place here at Nintendo Life. @Retro_on_Thego I know it seems trying, but do not give up. Never give up. If the relationship gets to a point where it can no longer hold up on it's own, then nothing can be done, but NEVER let it end because of your patience wearing thin. It could be one of the worst things for you, and it would only damage the girl more. She would feel as if it was all her fault, that her emotional baggage was the undoing of something that could have been great for her. Personally, my wife has a lot of huge trust issues and insecurities with men in general because of previous boyfriends and men in her life. We have worked through many of these issues, but I still love her and will continue to be here for her, even if some of those issues never die. Again, big apologies @Mickey. I just really wanted to help someone out. Retro Gaming Enthusiast. Nintendo Fan. Amateur Video Game Historian. Electronics Hobbyist.