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1,621. Posted:

my cat didn't greet me when I came home today

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1,622. Posted:

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Another one of the girl Im interested friend's reminded me that I make her feel uncomfortable. Despite the fact I have barely have said 2 sentences to her. I cant help but feel insulted though. I have even gone as far as to apology for an action I have know idea Im exactly apologizing for. It just bums me out that I have made a terrible first impression. Ugh, this whole charade sucks! I dont know what to do at this point anymore. :'(

2 things: a suggestion, and a theory

For the suggestion, don't let your fears of what someone else might think keep you from being you. It sounds cliche but it's not, and in general people respond better to confidence as long as you have a respectful personality.

Sometimes when girls (in this case) feel curious about someone they prod them a bit, asking questions and trying to "stir the pot" if you will. By responding honestly and confidently, in keeping with my suggestion, you can prove to the girl and her friend that you are the genuine article.

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AlexSays

1,623. Posted:

Just tell her you're interested. Nothing bad can happen, other than her actually being interested in you too. Then you'll have to be in a committed long term relationship and complain like the rest of us.

On another note, all cats suck.

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1,624. Posted:

GamecubeMan wrote:

Another one of the girl Im interested friend's reminded me that I make her feel uncomfortable. Despite the fact I have barely have said 2 sentences to her. I cant help but feel insulted though. I have even gone as far as to apology for an action I have know idea Im exactly apologizing for. It just bums me out that I have made a terrible first impression. Ugh, this whole charade sucks! I dont know what to do at this point anymore. :'(

Oh man.. I really hope things turn out for you and your (hopefully) possible girlfriend.

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...So for the past year; the student loan company has given me grants (money I don't have to pay back) to survive through the 3 years of Uni. However, they've overlooked something on the form my parents filled; and it's only NOW they realise I was not entitled to it AFTER they give me the cash. So I have to pay back everything I spent on travel and books because of their screw-up! This effectively (not actually but feels pretty dang close) leaves me penniless...

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1,626. Posted:

GamecubeMan wrote:

Another one of the girl Im interested friend's reminded me that I make her feel uncomfortable. Despite the fact I have barely have said 2 sentences to her. I cant help but feel insulted though. I have even gone as far as to apology for an action I have know idea Im exactly apologizing for. It just bums me out that I have made a terrible first impression. Ugh, this whole charade sucks! I dont know what to do at this point anymore. :'(

People say a lot. Has she ever told you in person that you make her feel uncomfortable? Don't believe everything people say. They either exaggerate or interpret it the wrong way. Just ask her out. If she says no, deal with it, if she says yes hurray! Don't let your actions depend on what other people think or say.

@LuigiMan200 wow I'd be pissed :-| What are you studying?

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1,627. Posted:

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...So for the past year; the student loan company has given me grants (money I don't have to pay back) to survive through the 3 years of Uni. However, they've overlooked something on the form my parents filled; and it's only NOW they realise I was not entitled to it AFTER they give me the cash. So I have to pay back everything I spent on travel and books because of their screw-up! This effectively (not actually but feels pretty dang close) leaves me penniless...

Holy crap that sound awful! :O Money is one of the main reasons I'm so afraid of college (no matter how intellectually gifted I ave, it doesn't make a damn difference if I can't afford school. :$)

I hope everything works out for you, man! Honestly, I don't know what else I can say. Normally, I'd help look for programs to help, but you're in the UK, so...

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@LuigiMan200 Holly hell! :O I really do hope things will go your way. :( :'(

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GamecubeMan wrote:

Another one of the girl Im interested friend's reminded me that I make her feel uncomfortable. Despite the fact I have barely have said 2 sentences to her. I cant help but feel insulted though. I have even gone as far as to apology for an action I have know idea Im exactly apologizing for. It just bums me out that I have made a terrible first impression. Ugh, this whole charade sucks! I dont know what to do at this point anymore. :'(

Maybe the friend is just messing with you. Or, just as you said, reminding that you used to? Before you apologized? ;) Maybe you're reading a bit too much into it?
Just try talking to her more in a group of friends so there's no awkward pauses. Get to know her interests that you share and talk about them. Just be yourself, dude. Stay calm and collected around her and about this whole thing. You'll be fine!

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DreamyViridi

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@Miss_Dark - I'm over it now but I was really depressed... I'm studying IT. Anything computers more or less because I don't know what to do career-wise.
@Nobodys_Angel - I appreciate the thought. My parents will pay for part of it and my savings will cover the rest. £1,300 is all I have for the nest 2 years. The fact that my parents have no choice but to bail me out makes me feel bitter...
@Big-Luigi - I do too... Now I need a job just to survive. I wish I was 16 again...

Thank you all for your concern.

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GuardianKing

1,631. Posted:

@GamecubeMan I have a better question: in what ways do you think you make her feel uncomfortable? Make a list of all those "reasons" in your head, and read it aloud. Chances are, you'll realize there was no issue to begin with. :P

How do you even make someone feel uncomfortable just talking?

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@LuigiMan200 No big deal, man; we're a pretty friendly community here, supporting each other and all. 0<img class=" />

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1,633. Posted:

@LuigiMan200 I hope everything turns out well in the end. That's terrible what happened. :(

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Emaan

1,634. Posted:

@LuigiMan200, Hope all goes well with your situation~

@GCM, <3 buddy. You can't let these things affect you. I'm sure you're a catch, you just need to look in the right places. Or maybe just not be looking at all right now, you're young there's still time. Don't take these things personally at all. You'll find the right person for you~

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@Retro_on_theGo, @Emaan
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Seriously; thanks everyone.

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@LuigiMan2000 That's flip-the-table-over levels of bad. I hope everything works out for you in the end!

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AlexSays

1,637. Posted:

They don't have private loan companies? In the US they hand out student loans like candy.

As long as you're going to school for something worthwhile a few thousand here or there is not a huge deal.

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1,638. Posted:

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They don't have private loan companies? In the US they hand out student loans like candy.

As long as you're going to school for something worthwhile a few thousand here or there is not a huge deal.

According to @LuigiMan200's profile he's from the UK, so I guess he's at least not getting saddled with the interest rate spike student loans were just hit with here ...

And I don't think private/federal loans makes a difference; both can be incredibly merciless when it comes to getting the money you owe them.

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AlexSays

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I meant more along the lines of a private loan company could bail him out now since he said he has very little to work with the next couple years.

And don't worry, you're speaking to the choir about interest rates on student loans. lol. Tends to make a fairly significant difference when your education costs are in the hundreds of thousands.

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DreamyViridi

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@AlexSays - I see what you mean. However, the reason I applied for grants in the first place was to avoid this kind of situation; having to pay back what I spent. A loan would only deepen the hole that's been dug as I'd be stuck having to pay back the loan company, pitting me back to square 1; y'know? Plus the possible interest loans and all that...

At least this 'mistake' happens now then at the end of the 3 year course...
And if the US truly have it worse, then in some ways; I should be thankful.

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