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@sean - my friend i mentioned is similar, she has a bit of short fuse. one night we were playing something when we joined a game with a bunch of a****oles and they started harassing her and she retalliated which made it worse. and at her school she has to deal with a bunch of 2 faced liars. she hated her school. everything got to the point that she started hurting herself. she doesnt anymore, i just wish i knew her when she was going though that.
but i had to deal with the samething too in school, except i dealt with it differntly, i just avoided contact as much as possible so they didnt have an opening. im able to keep things bottled up, but that just made them see how much it would take to make me pop.
@Sean007- I don't mean come back and insult them. I know it sucks. I'm sure some of these guys are D**KS. But what can you do? You can't make them stop directly. You can change how you react to them, however. That in itself could indirectly change how they treat you. It could also make you feel a little less angry.
Learn to laugh at yourself. Try to develope a sense of humor to deal with this. I know your first instinct is going to be something like Kiss my ... LTG. Why should I do that? They should be the ones to change. Trust me, I understand this. They SUCK. I understand being this angry about those guys I told you about( I probably didn't get it as bad as you though.) I was p*ssed. I understand wanting to mess them up to. I thought bad things about these guys, because of what they did. And yes I agree they're being fools. They do that to the wrong person and bam! Thats it. But that is wrong. It's not the way to solve it and would causevhurt for others. Be better than them. It's hard right now. I know. There are Always going to be jerks, but it Shouldn't always be as bad as it is now. Like I said you've got to figure out positive ways to deal with this. Find thing to do that make you feel good and good about yourself. What do you like to do that makes you feel good?
@cowlaunch - i see your point, that happens pretty often online. maybe we need a resident life advice giver on nintendo life : ) it could be a whole weekly article, id read it.
@sean - anytime. i hope i was able to help a little.
Hey Sean. I just read your original post and I can somewhat sympathise. I'm very sensitive to things like that and was bullied like that at school, too. I noticed you said you thought it was God punishing you. Let me assure you that He isn't punishing you. He loves you very much. I know there are people here who wont like me saying that but, to be frank I don't care. I'm praying for you mate. Take care.
"And she shall bring forth a son, and thou shalt call his name JESUS: for he shall save his people from their sins." Matt. 1:21.
There are probably some woman that like skinny too. Not everyone feels the same.
That is also very true, it of course depends on the person, but I know for a fact that girls do like skinny guys, some even like geekier guys (which is very fortunate for myself ) But, the girls might not admit it because it might be "unpopular". Again, that depends on the person as well as their group of friends. Just remember that it won't stay this way.
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But why would a girl like a skinny guy? i feel like im ugly y'know
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People can be there own worst critics. Someone else might not think that.
Edit- I've never seen your face (that I know of), so I can't really say. Besides you don't have to be good looking to get someone, I think. Personalitys can be attractive too, by the way.
I have chosen to get myself fit and buff. Yes...as skinny and anorexic i am. I will be taking a list down for my dad to buy at the shopping market everyday month.
Im gonna get myself fit.
any suggestions on what i should do is welcome.
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When you work out don't excersize for atleast an hour after/before eating a meal. Excersize daily for atleast an hour. Jumping jacks, push-ups, sit-ups, jogging, or even lifting some weights would be very helpful for results. Also eat healthy with an exception of a donut once in a while like I do
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@Sean007s Running is a great way to get fit and also get rid of some of that pent up agression,it's great for reliving stress and will also release lots of feel good hormones which may help in battling your depression. Also after reading some of your posts it seems that your not that bothered about being very muscular so don't let these bullies pressurise you into conforming to some male stereotype.Some of the toughest guys I've known have been skinny ,it's all about your attitude. Seriously dude I know that it seems tough at the moment but once you leave school it will be a lot easier to be yourself and make friends, there's just something about school that makes kids be really nasty to others in order for them to fit in with a certain crowd.Until then I'd listen to whoever suggested that you just laugh these comments off if you can.Just take the piss out of yourself whenever they make a comment and they won't know what to do. Honestly you won't mind being skinny once you all get older and your mates are all getting big fat guts or having to work out everynight just to stave off obesity Hope all goes well for you mate.Take care and don't let them get to you. Work out what you wanna do with your life and focus on acheiving that,whatever it may be.
I suggest you forget about women for now, and work on improving yourself. I don't think you are in the position to find a meaningful relationship right now. You need to be happy with yourself before someone is going to be happy with you. 99.9% of the time you are not going to find the love of your life while you are in high school anyway.
To the TC- your problems are not the least bit interesting. I read thru this topic to see what other's responses would be to your claim of being suicidal, thinking it may be good for a laugh. Your pop's an alcoholic? At least he has a job. Someone has to cut the grass. Anyone can do it? Not you, apparently. If you did manual labor regularly you would not picked on for being so frail. School/Girl/Bully/Gang issues? Man up and deal with it. I've known kids who would gladly trade you problems, if disease or injury had not taken them. At least they lived life to its fullest or inspired others by facing grim fate with dignity and courage. I know a few guys and girls who have offed themselves as well. No one thinks "They were troubled, if only we could have helped, poor so and so..." No. Everyone despises them for being such a wuss and putting their friends and family thru hell. Thats all, good luck with whatever you decide to do.
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Your life sucks because of the economy, duh...its obvious!
Go away lolz.
Anyway Yes i am gonna ask my councseller to put me into body building. I have actually been interested in transforming my body.
Just imagine...from Super scrawny Skinny to a monster!! ha....id love that!!!
Im ready for it. Actually for some reason i am starting to do like 10 push ups every day ....o.o
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hey me too i want to be slightly more masculine so i do 100 situps a day!
Damn wish we could do training together. i want a friend to help me through this. my mate Aaron next door does kick boxing. im guessing he will help me.
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When doing weight training, don't over-exert yourself. I was once told that if you can't do 30 reps, you can't do it. It's a good rule, start light and build yourself up. Some of these body-building classes can easily harm you, especially if they don't tell you how to do something properly and really watch you. My mom's knee is screwed up from going to Curves Take your time and if there is someone waiting for some machine, screw him, just go at your own pace. Also, as a general rule, avoid jerky motions, that's how you bugger up a shoulder
Oh, and I'm always told I'm skinny, I admit I do look it, but it's the way I'm built, I'm not as skinny as I look and I have thing with wanting to be skinnier. Also, not all girls like six-packs, I even know one that thinks they're kind of gross, weird, eh?
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