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Corbs

Watch it. I was just kidding around. I thought you were headed in that direction too. I deleted it. I didn't know you guys were being serious again.

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Plain old gamer :)

longtimegamer

@Clickity: Agreed.

@Sean007- May take awhile to find the right girl. Good friends are good to have. Doing something that makes you feel good can help pass the time between relationships, you'll most likely have a few of varying degrees.

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Sean007s

Corbie wrote:

Watch it. I was just kidding around. I thought you were headed in that direction too.

You cannot tell a joke by using text. if you were kidding then you should have said so.
same with people trying to be sarcastic by using text only.

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Sean007s

Corbie wrote:

Watch it. I was just kidding around. I thought you were headed in that direction too. I deleted it. I didn't know you guys were being serious again.

Sigh....i apologize.
I don't know why i get pissed off easily.
This is why people love to bully me.
to watch me take a freak-out.

Again i sincerily apologize.

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longtimegamer

What was being kidded about?

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Corbs

I just saw the guys on the first page getting silly and I joined in. I said he just needed a good ass-kicking. I'll leave well enough alone.

Plain old gamer :)

Sean007s

Corbie wrote:

I just saw the guys on the first page getting silly and I joined in. I said he just needed a good ass-kicking. I'll leave well enough alone.

No its quite alright mate.
Don't worry about it.
Like i said in one of my posts,i am a sensitive person.

Alittle...too sensitive...

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Vendetta

Sean, you're young and you still have your c*ck. Things could be whole lot worse. Corbie is right, you need a good ass kicking to snap you out of your misery, and were I a bit closer, I'd gladly oblige. Few things piss me off more than people wallowing in their own misery - and that will be where you remain so long as you alone let yourself. There are literally millions of people that have it worse than you, yet find constructive ways to rise above it, even if only in their outlook. Are they all better than you? Probably not, eh?

Shut the computer, go wash your face, adjust your perspective on things. They SUCK, yeah, but get past it or else you'll be saying this same sh*t in 20 years' time. Sorry if this comes across as harsh, friend, but seriously, you got tools to work with to make your situation better - the first step is taking the first step.

Vendetta

longtimegamer

@Sean007-I've done that a couple times recently. I understand. You just have alot of frustration and anger built up.
Just got to try to work it out. Figure out why (Probably, becsuse people have teased you and made fun of you before.) Practice trying self control.
I know it's hard. It will probably take awhile. If you don't like to be that way, make it a point to try to change that. Make it a goal for yourself.

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izanagi

ok, first, let me say i dont fully understand your situation; my dad isnt an ass, im not underweight, i dont go to school(ill expain later), and i dont know what its like to feel alone.

now that thats out of the way, i was in a similar position not too long ago. in 4th grade someone i thought was my friend in 3rd got the entire class to make fun of me on a daily basis. in 6th grade i was excluded in p.e. and picked last for teams cuz i wasnt very good, and people would hit me for no reason except that i was an easy target. in 7th it just got worse; people started wiping their spit on me and my books, theyed ask me a weird question(like they did with you and the 69er thing, btw i dont know what that is but i doubt you can share info about it on here) and when i said no or i dont understand theyd laugh and id have no idea why. throughout school i was always quiet, so i never had any good friends. everything just got so bad i couldnt go to school anymore. i just got my work from the school and did it at home. thats when i started seeing therepists and taking antidepressants. im in 10th grade now and i havent attended a full day of school since the middle of 7th. basicly i can understand where you come from a little bit(just a little, im not trying to imply i totally understand cuz i dont). i never got to the point when i was suicidal, but if something didnt happen, im sure i would have been there already. right now im on a program called hospital homebound, its for students who are enrolled in school, have teacher from the school come to the house to give you your work if your not able to attend. but enough about me. when i was in 7th grade i started putting on weight, not much, at most i was about 15 lb overweight. for you, it maybe the oppisite, your body may burn off MORE fat when youre stressed, rather than putting on. if you sincerilly dont want to be the way you are, and your sick of the way things are going, talk to someone. there comes a point in everyones lives when we just cant handle everything on our own. you may feel that theres no one who can help, who you can confide in, but theres is always someone. you just have to be ready to allow that person in. if you seek medical help, id reccomend seeing a psychologist first, psychiatrists will just drug you to oblivion as soon as you walk through the door(i speak from experience), and i dont think thats what you need. im personaly against medication for mental assistance, it just creates artificial moods, it doesnt help the root of the problem. but they can help if nessisary. and if you need a friend, try the internet. no one knows you there, they have no preconceptions, your just who you are now. i met my best friend(and future girlfriend if im lucky:p ) on xbox live(as i posted in another thread). without her, i dont know where id be right now. you just have to be careful with the internet. but if you want to change things, you just have to take that first step, whatever you chose it to be.

EDIT: holy crap, this is LONG! im really sorry guys for the length, kinda got carried away

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izanagi

clicketyclick

Sean007s wrote:

School shootings are blamed on the bullied victim.
Ok sure...they didn't have to take it that FAR but then again....those idiot bullies have no common sense. The bullies got themselves killed and their class-mates.
This is called REVENGE. I have felt this anger many times over the months.
I do wish to kill the bullies. I won't but i do wish to but i myself know its wrong.
The bullies think im not capatble of killing someone?
ANYONE can pick a gun up and shoot it.

That film may actually tell me some things on why i feel this way.

Nope it won't. Just a horror movie about a massacre. Not a good idea. May I recommend instead It's A Wonderful Life.

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Sean007s

longtimegamer wrote:

@Sean007-I've done that a couple times recently. I understand. You just have alot of frustration and anger built up.
Just got to try to work it out. Figure out why (Probably, becsuse people have teased you and made fun of you before.) Practice trying self control.
I know it's hard. It will probably take awhile. If you don't like to be that way, make it a point to try to change that. Make it a goal for yourself.

Thats literally my problem. Self-control is really hard for me. even when i was a kid i was crazy when i got angry.
If i had a gun right now,i promise id shoot myself.

Why SHOULD i bloody work out or solve these problems. These guys have their gangs...DO YOU UNDERSTAND????
GANGS. if i attack one of them then the rest will go after me. i cant fight back. its just not worth it.
The only thing i can do is just take the bulying and make my suicidal feelings worse...i mean come on.

Im scared of these guys. they have better insults then me and they are bigger tougher guys.
They shove me and i go flying. im sick and tired of this.

This is why school shootings happen. Its pathetic. we're in recession and these barsteward bullies don't understand they ain't making no ones life better by hurting them like this.

We can all just be happy and get on and get through school....but no. they have to pick on people.

Well you know what? i have had enough.

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longtimegamer

@Corbie: oh yeah. I thought I saw something like that.
@Sean007: He was just goofing around. I myself like to goof and joke around (sometimes too much, my fiance thinks). I made a joke to a pregnent woman at a bowling ally that I regret. Seemed to bother me more than it did her though. But that's a case where I could of offended someone by doing that. Lucky for me she was understanding (I know this because I appologized to her). Sometimes it's best to leave something unsaid.

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Corbs

Sean, from watching you on this thread I can tell you what one of your problems is. You give the desired reaction people are looking for. People don't pick on the guy that just walks off and does nothing, they pick on the guy that cries, throws a fit, or tells a teacher on them because they think it's funny. You're going to have to learn to control your emotions or people are never going to leave you alone. I know it's tough. But it's something you're going to have to do if you ever want any peace of mind. Reacting without thinking is what gets people into serious trouble or even worse, hurt. I'd hate to see that happen to you, or anyone for that matter. I hope it's something you can get ahold of in time and I really wish you'd find someone around you that you could sit down and talk to about. It might help you sort some things out. I wish you all the luck man, I really do.

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Plain old gamer :)

CowLaunch

I'm sure the good people at Nintendo Life & the majority of it's users are intelligent & well informed; however I don't think a gaming website is the best place to seek advice & counselling.

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CowLaunch

izanagi

wow tokengirl, that was awesome advice: )

izanagi

Sean007s

Corbie wrote:

Sean, from watching you on this thread I can tell you what one of your problems is. You give the desired reaction people are looking for. People don't pick on the guy that just walks off and does nothing, they pick on the guy that cries, throws a fit, or tells a teacher on them because they think it's funny. You're going to have to learn to control your emotions or people are never going to leave you alone. I know it's tough. But it's something you're going to have to do if you ever want any peace of mind. Reacting without thinking is what gets people into serious trouble or even worse, hurt. I'd hate to see that happen to you, or anyone for that matter. I hope it's something you can get ahold of in time and I really wish you'd find someone around you that you could sit down and talk to about. It might help you sort some things out. I wish you all the luck man, I really do.

Thats what my dad said,he said that the want to get me rounded up so they can see me go angry.
I reckon its one of the issues.

Also thanks to everyone who posted their story on what happened to them when they got bullied.
I know these guys are bullying me but like i said before..most times its just them laughing at me cuz i did something stupid(for example i go to the wrong class or something).
Usually when i do get mad at them in convo they say sarcastically "ooh sorry Sean...no need to get angry".

They maybe bigger than me but actually over the 2 years i did actually punch the guy in the face(they clamied i bitch-slapped him.....bullshit....i remember it. i turned around and punched him.)
last year i gave one of the bullies a black eye(Im serious...no joke....his eye had a lump hanging out of him....i mean....im not saying im strong but....i did CRITICAL DAMAGE...lol sorry)

I don't know what will happen in the future...i just hope i myself make it through this pain.

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izanagi

@cowlaunch - sometimes places like this are all you have to go to. i say if hes comfortable here, let him vent

izanagi

Sean007s

Also yes i seriously want to thank everyone for the replies.
I do read them and if i don't reply believe me,i have read your comments
thanks once again people

If i made a thrend like this on Say....kotaku or youtube...people would call me a faggot. y'know..
also for the bad language...

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CowLaunch

izanagi wrote:

@cowlaunch - sometimes places like this are all you have to go to. i say if hes comfortable here, let him vent

I know what you're saying, I'm just not sure everyone on here is qualified to give advice. Some of it seems very wise to me, but then I'm not a therapist. I suppose I'm concerned that someone will say something stupid & he'll take it on board. Some of the 'advice' I've read has been a little close to the bone.

Don't mean to sound overly sanctimonious, but there it is.

CowLaunch

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