I don't have an American credit card either, but I partake of the Wii and DSi shops often.
Also you don't need an American credit card to shop online for retail NA games.
I don't believe the Japanese releases of US/EU/AU games will be in English, and 99% of the time they won't have language selection. The only JP games I own with an English language option are the first three Phoenix Wright games, but they were advertised in Japan as having that feature.
Downloadable games will definitely have Japanese text only. Text-heavy Japan-only games (and there are many of them) will not be playable for you either. Then you have extra expenses per game due to importing - shipping, customs, censorship. (Though that applies to any non-AU games for you anyway.) Overall I'd say it isn't worth it.
If you speak fluent Japanese then go for it.
If anything, region locking is a good argument for getting a NA 3DS over any other. Well for me anyway - thankfully here in Asia we have access to hardware and games of every region.